Online Dating Love

Thursday, August 2, 2007

Want to get hitched? Try online dating

So, you have finally opened up to the idea of dating online and hope for a relationship that will bloom into something fruitful, like marriage!

Here are some tips for a successful online dating experience.

Use complete personal information.
Of course, you should be prudent in giving out personal contact information. But otherwise, give out your likes and dislikes, your interests, and favorite books honestly. Members on the online service may look at your site and leave uninterested if they see that your profile is just full of Ask Me descriptions and statements.

Okay, you might want to leave additional information to those interested, but you have to give information on your profile that would show your best attributes.

You might want to add photographs to your profile. Some online sites have audio and video features where you can upload your clips. Instead of a dull profile with no pictures or video or audio clips, why not try these features? It makes your profile personalized and interesting.
When surfing and chatting in an online singles site, you must not be rude or aggressive in your profile. Avoid also using swear or cuss words. People are turned off by offensive remarks.

Honesty is the best policy.
Highlight the best characteristics that you have, but don't lie.
If you are really passionate about something, say so. Do not hide the things that you are very passionate about. If you really like partying, say so. Pretending to be someone you are not, won't help you get a date you like.

If it is available, try the site's voicemail services. Hearing the voice of a prospective partner is wonderful. You could sense the person's background by the way they communicate with you.
When someone sends you an anonymous message, try to answer as promptly as you can. If you are serious in having online dates with the hope of having fruitful relationships (and hopefully marriage), then you should be serious in replying to messages.

Be patient.
You should take your time in finding the perfect partner, and not only in online services. It takes time for people to develop and have serious commitment to each other.
Always think optimistically. Keep thinking the best will happen.

If you are looking for a long-term relationship or marriage through online dating services, remember that you should be patient and honest.

posted by J.E.Putra at 2:55 AM 0 comments

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