Online Dating Love
Thursday, May 24, 2007
How to Check Your Online Date’s Honesty
Online dating can prove to be a wonderful experience but you have to remember certain precautions in dating people over the Net.
How would you know that the person you will be meeting for the first time is honest and is not deceiving you? Here are some tips to guide you.
1. Listen to what your gut is saying. If something does not feel right when communicating with him or her, it is probably an indication to move on. Trust on your instincts.
2. Do not give out your personal home information too early. If your date is an honest person, they will understand. They should also be aware of the danger that may lurk in online dating, and agree on some measures for protection. In fact, they may admire you for it, because it shows that you are not cheap, nor desperate for a date.
3. To maximize your safety, make an anonymous electronic mail account in services like Yahoo or Hotmail. Try not to give your complete name. This will protect your privacy. If you think someone is trustworthy enough to give out your main email address and other information, then you can give him or her the information.
4. If you think you have gathered enough information about your date, you could try doing a background check. If he or she is honest, they shouldn't make a big deal about it. After all, honest people don’t have anything to hide, do they?
Keep in mind that there are people out there who lie about their profile and the things they are saying over the Internet. Some lie about their marital status, some over their physical appearances, and some about their intentions. Be alert at all times. Not all people in online dating services are good people. Trust your instincts. Hopefully, you will find one that is honest and has good intentions for you. He or she might be your destiny.
How would you know that the person you will be meeting for the first time is honest and is not deceiving you? Here are some tips to guide you.
1. Listen to what your gut is saying. If something does not feel right when communicating with him or her, it is probably an indication to move on. Trust on your instincts.
2. Do not give out your personal home information too early. If your date is an honest person, they will understand. They should also be aware of the danger that may lurk in online dating, and agree on some measures for protection. In fact, they may admire you for it, because it shows that you are not cheap, nor desperate for a date.
3. To maximize your safety, make an anonymous electronic mail account in services like Yahoo or Hotmail. Try not to give your complete name. This will protect your privacy. If you think someone is trustworthy enough to give out your main email address and other information, then you can give him or her the information.
4. If you think you have gathered enough information about your date, you could try doing a background check. If he or she is honest, they shouldn't make a big deal about it. After all, honest people don’t have anything to hide, do they?
Keep in mind that there are people out there who lie about their profile and the things they are saying over the Internet. Some lie about their marital status, some over their physical appearances, and some about their intentions. Be alert at all times. Not all people in online dating services are good people. Trust your instincts. Hopefully, you will find one that is honest and has good intentions for you. He or she might be your destiny.
posted by J.E.Putra at 7:48 AM
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